There are better ways to release emotions than to harm yourself or others. Please promise me you’ll find one that works for you!
This has been me all Thanksgiving break. ;~;
Me literally every time some jerk on the train tries to spread his (and it is always ‘his’) legs across 3 seats.
Yo, you can pack a bag and take this train all the way to the Men’s Rights headquarters. I’m sick of some dinky high school boy trying to nudge me out of the way so he can take up both arm rests.
I’ve had a lot of men stop dead in the sidewalk and dance awkwardly out of the way at the last minute, giving me bewildered glances because I moved exactly halfway over when walking towards them and they expected me to flatten myself to the wall. I’ve watched uncomfortable knee-flinches when my legs obstinately refuse to be primly squeezed together to allow him the maximum possible spread on public transportation. I’ve received uncertain side-eyes on the plane because no, actually, I am using the armrest on this side, you can have the one on the aisle/window.
It’s always the exact same expression, too; this startled, confused uncertainty, like they’ve never before considered the fact that I might demand the space courtesy grants as my due - followed by an uncomfortable yielding when they face the fact that there’s nothing they can say without being an overt jackass.
I shoulder-check a lot more dudes than I used to, consciously not getting out of the way. It’s great.
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As an author, I frequently field questions from teens about Big Ticket English Class Items. “What is the theme of your work?” “Can you list three metaphors from this chapter?” “Why did you use a simile here?” The questions always carry a faint accusatory air. But metaphors and similes are glorious! They clarify and elucidate by providing an alternative way of looking at something. In fact, today I was driving along in my Camaro and suddenly I found myself listening to “Dark Horse” by Katy Perry & Juicy J. It is chock full of metaphors. In fact, I think they use every metaphor. How clarifying!
However … I must admit that the first 43 times that I listened to this song, the lyrics confused me. The metaphors confused me. What are you trying to say, Katy? How complicated this relationship must be that we need all of these metaphors to understand it. Even with my absolutely massive authorial grown-up collegiate brain, I was stymied. But now, yes, now, I’ve listened to it 43 times more and I think I’m prepared to give my professional authorial interpretation of this song.
Which I’m sure is definitely right. Lyrics in bold. THE TRUTH in non-bold.
[Juicy J:] Yeah/ Ya’ll know what it is
[what it is: pop song, minor key, B-flat minor]
Katy Perry/ Juicy J, aha.
[cast of characters] [Norwegian pop group.]
“Let’s chat about the reasons why it is compelling to date me seriously.”
[Katy Perry:] I knew you were/ You were gonna come to me/
And here you are
“I gave you my number. Even though you could have blown me off as there is technically free will in the universe, I’m Katy Perry. So please. You were going to call.”
But you better choose carefully/ ‘Cause I, I’m capable of anything/
Of anything and everything
“Sometimes when I get drunk I stand on the piano in the bar and sing Katy Perry songs.”
Make me your Aphrodite
“Once upon a time, Cronus castrated Uranus and then tossed his nuts into the sea, and the goddess Aphrodite was created as a result. Despite being the product of sea-gonads, she was the hottest of the goddesses, and she also had a magical girdle that she used to compel people to love her. She also basically had sex with every god, ever, and had about a billion children. So, that. I want to be that to you.”
Make me your one and only
“So, when I asked you to evoke Aphrodite before, I didn’t mean the slutty bit.”
Don’t make me your enemy, your enemy, your enemy
“But the testicle part of her tale is still salient here.”
So you wanna play with magic
“So you wanna get involved with someone who defies the rules of science in a fashion frequently associated with both superstition and Warner Brothers?”
Boy, you should know what you’re falling for/ Baby do you dare to do this/ Cause I’m coming at you like a dark horse
“Cause I’m coming at you like a metaphor”
Are you ready for, ready for/ A perfect storm, perfect storm
“Are you psychologically prepared for a once-in-a-lifetime confluence of meteorological events?”
Cause once you’re mine, once you’re mine/ There’s no going back
“No, seriously. Get sand bags, several gallons of drinking water, and fresh batteries for your flash light.”
Mark my words/ This love will make you levitate/ Like a bird/ Like a bird without a cage
“The chemical production of phenylethylamine in your brain during our courtship stage will replicate the weightless sensation of a bird flying without the constraints of a cage (but presumably limited naturally by the bird’s physical capacity for high altitudes, so therefore our love will soar at or below 16,000 feet above sea level — unless the bird in question is a Gyps rueppelli, which has been recorded at 37,900 feet. Actually you know what, go with that. We’re aiming high with this love.).”
But down to earth/ If you choose to walk away, don’t walk away
“When I say you have a choice, I really mean: you don’t have a choice.”
It’s in the palm of your hand now baby/ It’s a yes or no, no maybe
“Actually you do, but it’s binary.”
So just be sure before you give it up to me/ Up to me/ give it up to me
“You should be sure before you have sex with me. Because I am your Aphrodite, and historically, that’s meant that it’s possible that our children could actually turn out to be either nymphs, hermaphrodites, or children with over-sized genitals. So I’m just saying, be sure. Or, use protection.”
[Juicy J] Uh/ She’s a beast/ I call her Karma (come back)
“As she pointed out earlier in the song, she is capable of anything and everything. Which probably I deserve.”
She eats your heart out/ Like Jeffrey Dahmer
“At the best, she will strangle and dismember you before dining on your heart weeks later, and at the worst, she will drill a hole in your head and pour muriatic acid in. In the movie version of your romance, she will be portrayed by someone like Jeremy Renner or Anthony Hopkins.”
Be careful/ Try not to lead her on/ Shawty’s heart was on steroids/ Cause her love was so strong
Author’s note: I appear to be too old to interpret this couplet. Compelling research suggests “shawty” could mean “a young girl or woman” but possibly could also be referring to Shawty Lo, a rapper who is neither a young girl or a woman. This author is forced to admit that she is bereft of the pop culture bad-assery necessary to shed light on this line.
You may fall in love/ When you meet her
“She is like Aphrodite and her magical girdle will most likely compel you to love her.”
If you get the chance you better keep her/ She’s sweet as pie
“She is such a pleasant experience”
but if you break her heart/ She’ll turn cold as a freezer
“She will no longer be a pleasant experience.”
That fairy tale ending with a knight in shining armor
“I am a chivalrous sort of guy who treats women well.”
She can be my Sleeping Beauty/ I’m gon’ put her in a coma
Damn I think I love her/ Shawty so bad
I’m sprung and I don’t care
“I have been captivated by her magic girdle and even knowing the potential consequences — the magical children with weird-ass body parts and whatnot — I can’t help myself.”
She got me like a roller coaster
“Ever since taking her number, I have wavered back and forth between elation and wanting to vomit up the boardwalk fries I unwisely consumed before getting into this relationship.”
Turn the bedroom into a fair
“When we engage in intercourse, sometimes there is a petting zoo and/or a pie judging contest also in the room.”
Her love is like a drug
“She mentioned earlier that her love would make me feel as if I was soaring at at least 16,000 feet above sea level. Belladonna is a hallucinogenic substance that commonly causes the sensation of flying and was used in potions by witches in the middle ages. Her love is like a drug in general and belladonna in specific, which unfortunately has side effects including dilated pupils, slurred speech, and constipation.”
I was tryna hit it and quit it
“I considered taking her to Outback Steakhouse, making out with her against the side of my used Subaru, and then never calling her again.”
But lil’ mama so dope
“But this diminutive human of the child-bearing type was so great”
I messed around and got addicted
“I decided to go steady.”
You know, I’d like to think that if I ever met Ben Whishaw I’d be all Cool Professor Smoove and ask something like, “Having played both Richard II and Hamlet, how do you feel Shakespearean authority is voiced differently in history as opposed to tragedy?” But I’m pretty sure I’d be all “Are you wearing lipgloss ben because GODDAMN IT ALWAYS LOOKS LIKE YOU’RE WEARING LIPGLOSS NOW FESS UP SON.”